Handling Disruptive Customers


Handling disruptive customers requires that you document what happened and what you did in response. Write down the specific behavior of the customer, the date and time of the event, and your actions. You should also record the verbal warning you gave the customer. In addition, you should note who witnessed the incident and whether there were any witnesses present.

Avoid acting indifferent


Disruptive customers can be difficult to manage, but there are some simple steps you can take to avoid acting indifferent to them. One of the most important is to listen to your customers. This means making sure that you understand the problem they're having and offering solutions that will solve the problem. It also means recognizing their needs, feedback, and suggestions.

Avoid interrupting


While you may think interruptions are bad, not all are. Sometimes, it is necessary to give the other person a chance to finish their thought. Interrupting someone is also rude, and can be an indicator of a lack of attention. Thankfully, there are ways to deal with interrupting customers that will help you keep everyone happy.


People want to be heard, so try to show that you are paying attention. If the customer is talking over you, wait until the conversation reaches a natural pause. Taking a break from the conversation can make it easier for both of you to focus on what the customer is saying. Otherwise, it may be best to keep quiet while he continues.


When you feel that you're being interrupted, it's normal to get angry and frustrated. While you may be tempted to snap at the customer, it's better to remain calm. This will show the other person that you're not angry with them, and you may even get a chance to finish your work.


Another way to deal with an interrupting customer is to plan your response in advance. You can either ignore them or say, "May I finish?," or you can simply walk away. You should also be prepared for future situations where an interruption may occur. This way, you'll be better prepared to respond to such interruptions.


When an interruption occurs, the person should remember that you are talking to the first customer. This is the most important customer you're dealing with. The other customer is secondary. You should not interrupt your first customer unless you're talking to a second customer. You can tell the second customer that you're ready to move on to the first customer by shifting eye contact.

Avoid being a defensive voice


While interacting with a disruptive customer, it is critical to stay calm. Getting angry can make you defensive, and you'll only make matters worse for the customer. When you're in a defensive state, it's easy to slip into an argumentative tone, which will further irritate the customer.


Avoid being defensive by addressing the customer directly. Avoid using condescending generalizations, such as "sorry about your inconvenience." The point is to listen to the other person and make an effort to understand his or her perspective. In the end, make a specific request. This will demonstrate that you're interested in solving the issue, rather than making an argument.


Another way to avoid being defensive is to walk away from the situation for a while. Afterward, return to the conversation when you're calm. Alternatively, you can seek the help of a mediator to help you resolve the conflict and avoid confrontation. By taking these steps, you'll be more understanding and compassionate with others, which will in turn reflect positively on your interactions with others.


Managing a disruptive customer can be challenging and stressful. Our natural instinct is to react defensively in such a situation. But it's important to remember that everyone gets angry at some point, and it's better to focus on the customer's words and his or her goals instead of being defensive.